About Alexa
Alexa St. Martin is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) based in Hawaii who helps people facing relationship and identity concerns. She listens without judgment and focuses on practical steps people can use to feel steadier and more connected.
Alexa aims to build a trusting working relationship so clients can talk honestly and try new ways of coping. She works with a range of concerns including LGBT issues, relationship and intimacy-related problems, trauma and abuse, anxiety and panic, grief, and low self-esteem.
How Alexa works
Alexa also supports people navigating family of origin issues, separation and divorce, fertility struggles, and the complications that come with non-monogamous arrangements or kink and alternative sex culture. Her approach draws on attachment-based and client-centered ideas to strengthen relationships and increase self-understanding. She uses narrative and Jungian concepts to help people make meaning of painful experiences and notice recurring patterns.
The Gottman Method informs work on communication and conflict in partnerships. Alexa brings three years of direct clinical experience as an LCSW and practices in Hawaii. Sessions are offered by video calls, phone, live chat, and text messaging to fit different needs.
Fees vary with location and therapist availability and use a cancellable subscription format. To begin, people select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability. Alexa focuses on collaborating with each person to create realistic, tangible changes over time.
Alexa lists 8 ways of working on the entry:
What Alexa works with
The areas below are the ones Alexa selected when setting up a profile. The first few are listed as the main focus; the rest are also named.
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
Also listed
- Abandonment
- ADHD
- Attachment issues
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Body image
- Communication problems
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Depression
- Divorce and separation
- Family of origin issues
- Fertility issues
- Gender dysphoria
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Infidelity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Post-traumatic stress
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Self esteem
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexuality
- Stress, Anxiety
- Trauma and abuse
- Women's issues
Training and background
| Register | LCSW |
|---|---|
| Years in practice | 3 |
| Languages | English |
| Session format | Online: video, phone, live chat or messaging |
| Country | Hawaii |
Memberships and registers are shown as supplied; they are not licences, and this directory does not verify them.
Online support options
Therapeutic approaches for online relationship and identity work
Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on how early connections shape feelings and behavior in relationships. It helps people notice attachment patterns, build more supported ways of relating, and improve closeness with partners or others.Client-Centered Therapy emphasizes a respectful, nonjudgmental relationship where the therapist follows the client's lead. This approach supports self-exploration and helps people find their own solutions to issues like self-esteem, identity, and life changes.
The Gottman Method offers practical tools for improving communication and managing conflict in partnerships. It provides specific skills people can practice between sessions to reduce arguments and rebuild trust.
Finding the right approach is part of the work. Alexa will collaborate with each person to identify which methods fit their needs, goals, and comfort level. Together they will try approaches and adjust the plan as progress is made.
Online sessions are offered via video calls, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging to make therapy more convenient. Video sessions allow face-to-face conversation, phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is low, live chat works well for shorter check-ins, and messaging lets people send thoughts between meetings. These options help people fit therapy into busy schedules and keep momentum between sessions.
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A practical next step
Write down two things you would want to be different in six months. That is the most useful thing to bring to a first session, whoever it is with. If you would rather start now than keep reading, online sessions are the quickest route.
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