About Conner
Conner McFarlin is a Kansas licensed clinical social worker with seven years of practice. She has recent experience working in school settings and running relationship education, and she focuses on practical help for everyday struggles. She spent five years as a middle school social worker supporting student and staff mental health.
Before that she taught relationship education using the Gottman Institute curriculum. That background shaped how she talks about relationships and how people connect with one another.
How Conner works
Conner helps people who are dealing with stress, anxiety, depression, and low self-esteem. She also supports people coping with trauma and abuse, relationship concerns, attachment questions, and sexuality-related issues. Sessions aim to address immediate problems while building longer term coping skills.
Her style is straightforward and collaborative. She works to create an open space where thoughts and feelings can be shared without judgment. Conversations focus on what matters to the client and on practical steps that feel doable.
People can expect a mix of short-term problem solving and work on underlying patterns. Conner draws on tools from attachment-based work, cognitive behavioral techniques, mindfulness, motivational interviewing, and solution-focused methods to tailor sessions to each person. She aims to help clients make changes that fit their life and values.
Conner lists 5 ways of working on the entry:
What Conner works with
The areas below are the ones Conner selected when setting up a profile. The first few are listed as the main focus; the rest are also named.
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Trauma and abuse
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Training and background
| Register | LSCSW |
|---|---|
| Years in practice | 7 |
| Languages | English |
| Session format | Online: video, phone, live chat or messaging |
| Country | Kansas |
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Online support options
How attachment and skills work online
Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early patterns of connection shape present relationships. Online work can help identify those patterns and practice new ways of relating in daily life. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, focuses on changing unhelpful thoughts and testing new behaviors. It translates well to video or text-based work through clear goals, practice tasks, and thought records that clients can use between sessions.Finding the best approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will talk with the client about goals, preferences, and what feels most useful, then combine methods like attachment work, CBT, mindfulness, or solution-focused tools as needed. That plan can change over time as progress and needs shift.
Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. Video is useful when body language and a more direct conversation help, phone calls can be easier when bandwidth is limited, and live chat or text messaging work well for quick check-ins or when a shorter, written touchpoint fits a busy day. These options make scheduling more flexible and let people fit therapy into their regular routines.
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