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Eric Bolella, LMFT

Trauma-informed, systems-oriented therapist

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About Eric

Eric Bolella is a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) practicing in Connecticut. He brings ten years of clinical experience and focuses on trauma, grief, depression, anxiety, relationship and family concerns. Eric works with people who are coping with major life changes and the stress that comes with them.

He trained at Central Connecticut State University where he earned a master’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy in 2013. Early work included outpatient care for inner-city youth and low-income families in New Britain, Connecticut.

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How Eric works

Eric also spent years as a clinician and manager in therapeutic adolescent group homes, gaining hands-on experience with behavioral and emotional challenges. More recently he directed a state-funded nonprofit domestic violence program. There he led efforts to address abusive behavior and support family healing to reduce the need for state intervention.

That role shaped his trauma-focused, systems-oriented perspective. Eric blends solution-focused strategies with a conversational, Socratic style. He draws on internal family systems and narrative ideas to help people make sense of painful experiences.

Mindfulness techniques and compassionate inquiry influence his work with trauma and stress. In independent practice he provides telehealth sessions that fit into busy schedules. He aims to help people find clearer paths forward, rebuild relationships, and manage strong emotions.

Sessions are practical, direct, and focused on tangible steps toward change.

Eric lists 6 ways of working on the entry:

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What Eric works with

The areas below are the ones Eric selected when setting up a profile. The first few are listed as the main focus; the rest are also named.

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Training and background

Register LMFT
Years in practice 10
Languages English
Session format Online: video, phone, live chat or messaging
Country Connecticut

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Online support options

Approaches that guide online sessions

Eric often uses Client-Centered Therapy to create a respectful, listening-based environment where people can set their own goals. That approach helps when someone needs a supportive space to talk through identity, grief, or relationship issues.

He also applies Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to identify unhelpful thinking and try practical behavior changes. CBT is useful for anxiety, depression, sleep problems, and managing mood swings by teaching concrete skills to shift thoughts and actions.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Eric will collaborate with each person to choose methods that fit their needs, goals, and comfort level. Sessions start with practical goals and adjust as progress is made.

Online therapy offers several practical benefits. Video calls let people keep visual contact and mimic an in-person session. Phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is limited or for quick check-ins. Live chat and text-based messaging allow brief, ongoing support between sessions and can fit into busy days. These options give flexibility for scheduling and for matching the format to the work someone wants to do.

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Common questions

What concerns does Eric commonly address?
He helps people with trauma and abuse, grief, depression, anxiety, relationship and family concerns, and life transitions. Additional focuses include body image, codependency, and caregiver stress.
What is his therapy style like?
His approach is trauma-focused and systemic, combining solution-focused techniques with a conversational Socratic style. Narrative and mindfulness methods are also used to help people reframe experiences.
How much clinical experience does he have?
He has ten years of clinical experience, including work in outpatient settings, therapeutic adolescent group homes, and management of a domestic violence program.
What credentials and location are listed?
He holds an LMFT credential - licensed marriage and family therapist - and practices from Connecticut.
In which language are sessions offered?
Sessions are offered in English and international clients are not currently accepted.
Which session formats are available?
He offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging for flexible online care.
How is cost handled for sessions?
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What are the steps to begin therapy?
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