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Lois Pasapane, LCMHC, LMHC

Compassionate, experienced counselor guiding practical change

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About Lois

Lois Pasapane helps people handle stress, anxiety, depression, and trauma. She addresses relationship and intimacy concerns, addictions, eating issues, career questions, ADHD, and self-esteem. Lois also focuses on aging and geriatric issues, body image, caregiver stress, and codependency.

She brings a steady, experienced presence to sessions and explains options in plain language. Lois holds a Master of Science in Counseling Psychology from Nova Southeastern University earned in 1984. She is licensed as a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor - LCMHC in North Carolina and also holds an LMHC credential from Florida.

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How Lois works

Her practice draws on 35 years of work in counseling, supervision, and teaching of prospective counselors. Her approach is person-centered. She treats each person as the expert on their life and centers their goals when planning work together.

Intake includes family and personal history, clear identification of issues, and recognition of strengths that can be built on. Treatment plans are practical and collaborative. Lois commonly uses behavioral agreements, role-play, esteem-building exercises, and homework to encourage active progress between sessions.

She expects clients to take part in shaping goals and tasks. Lois also integrates other methods when they match a client's needs. She uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, EMDR, and hypnotherapy among her tools.

Techniques are explained and agreed on before being used.

Lois lists 9 ways of working on the entry:

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What Lois works with

The areas below are the ones Lois selected when setting up a profile. The first few are listed as the main focus; the rest are also named.

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Training and background

Registers LCMHC, LMHC
Years in practice 35
Languages English
Session format Online: video, phone, live chat or messaging
Country North Carolina

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Online support options

How her approaches translate to online care

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on helping people notice thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them. It teaches values-based actions to move toward a meaningful life and can help with anxiety, depression, and life changes. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at thought and behavior patterns and uses practical exercises to change unhelpful habits; it is often used for anxiety, depression, and stress. Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) targets distress linked to traumatic memories by using guided processing to reduce emotional intensity and improve coping.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will talk through goals, preferences, and symptoms and together decide which methods to try. That collaborative process means approaches can be adjusted over time if something is not helping.

Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging, which add flexibility for different needs. Video is useful for deeper conversations and guided techniques, phone sessions can fit a tight schedule or reduce bandwidth needs, and chat or messaging can work for brief check-ins or when writing feels easier. These options make it simpler to keep regular appointments, fit therapy into a busy life, and continue momentum between sessions.

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Common questions

What kinds of concerns does Lois address?
She supports people with stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, depression, self-esteem, addictions, relationship and intimacy issues, eating concerns, career questions, and ADHD. Additional focus areas include aging and geriatric issues, body image, caregiver stress, and codependency.
How would you describe her therapeutic style?
Her style is person-centered and collaborative. She centers the client's goals, builds on strengths, and uses practical tasks like role-play and homework to encourage real-life change.
What is her clinical background?
She earned a Master of Science in Counseling Psychology in 1984 and has 35 years of experience in counseling, supervision, and teaching prospective counselors.
What credentials and location does she hold?
She is credentialed as LCMHC and LMHC, with licensure in North Carolina noted as NC LCMHC and FL LMHC for Florida. Her practice is based in North Carolina.
In which languages are sessions offered?
Sessions are offered in English. International clients are not currently accepted.
What session formats are available?
She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different schedules and needs.
How does payment and cost work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
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