About Paula
Paula Lowden greets people who are feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure where to begin. She aims to make first steps easier by listening without judgment and helping clients find practical ways to move forward. Paula is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) practicing in Oregon with 14 years of experience.
She focuses on relationship struggles, grief and loss, parenting stress, self-esteem, and managing big life changes. Paula also addresses concerns like aging and geriatric issues, caregiver stress, cancer-related challenges, and midlife or life-purpose questions.
How Paula works
She helps people unpack guilt, shame, and issues tied to family of origin or divorce and separation. In sessions Paula uses approaches that center the person’s values and choices. She draws on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to help clients notice difficult thoughts and act on what matters to them.
Client-Centered Therapy guides her to follow each person’s pace and priorities. Paula also brings elements of Existential Therapy to talk about meaning and life direction, and Motivational Interviewing to support change when motivation feels low. Her style is conversational and practical - she listens first, then works with clients to try small, realistic steps between sessions.
Paula invites people to start with what feels manageable and build from there. She encourages clear, down-to-earth goals and regular check-ins so care adapts as life shifts.
Paula lists 4 ways of working on the entry:
What Paula works with
The areas below are the ones Paula selected when setting up a profile. The first few are listed as the main focus; the rest are also named.
- Relationship issues
- Grief
- Parenting issues
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Training and background
| Register | LPC |
|---|---|
| Years in practice | 14 |
| Languages | English |
| Session format | Online: video, phone, live chat or messaging |
| Country | Oregon |
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Online support options
Approaches that guide online sessions
Paula often uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to help people notice difficult thoughts and feelings and still take steps toward what matters to them. This approach can be useful for grief, low self-esteem, and decisions about life purpose or midlife changes.She also uses Client-Centered Therapy, which focuses on listening closely and following the client’s pace. That approach helps when someone needs a supportive space to talk through relationship strain, parenting stress, or caregiver burden.
Finding the right approach is part of the work together. Paula will talk with each person about goals, preferences, and what feels most helpful. She tailors methods so the plan fits the problem and can change the approach as needs shift over time.
Online sessions are offered by video call, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging to provide flexibility. Video calls let visual cues guide the conversation, phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is limited, live chat and messaging allow brief check-ins between meetings, and text-based work can support ongoing reflection. These options make it easier to fit therapy into work, caregiving, or medical schedules and to try different formats as life changes.
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A practical next step
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