About Scott
Scott Kilousky offers calm, straightforward support for people feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure how to move forward. He creates space to talk through what led someone to seek help and to build clearer self-understanding. Scott is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) with four years of experience and works from Hawaii.
Sessions are conducted in English. Scott uses a collaborative, non-directive style. He listens first and follows the client’s lead while gently reflecting what he hears.
How Scott works
This helps people notice patterns in relationships, mood, and behavior so they can decide what to change. He draws on client-centered methods that focus on the person’s experience and values. Existential ideas help people name what matters to them and face big questions about purpose and meaning.
Solution-focused techniques support short-term goals and practical steps to reduce distress. Scott has experience supporting concerns such as addictions, trauma and abuse, depression, anxiety, grief, relationship struggles, intimacy-related issues, anger, self-esteem, bipolar disorder, ADHD, and compassion fatigue. He also helps with communication problems, forgiveness, guilt and shame, isolation and loneliness, life purpose, and self-love.
Sessions are offered by video call, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging. Costs vary with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time. To begin, select the Start Therapy button and complete a short matching questionnaire, then schedule according to availability.
Scott lists 3 ways of working on the entry:
What Scott works with
The areas below are the ones Scott selected when setting up a profile. The first few are listed as the main focus; the rest are also named.
- Addictions
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
Also listed
Training and background
| Register | LMFT |
|---|---|
| Years in practice | 4 |
| Languages | English |
| Session format | Online: video, phone, live chat or messaging |
| Country | Hawaii |
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Online support options
How Scott's Approaches Work Online
Scott blends client-centered, existential, and solution-focused ideas into online therapy. Client-centered work means the conversation centers on the client's experience and values; the therapist listens deeply and mirrors what they hear to help the person feel understood and seen. Existential approaches invite questions about meaning, choice, and life purpose and can help when someone is struggling with big changes or unclear priorities. Solution-focused work zeroes in on specific goals and small steps that lead to visible improvement in daily life.Choosing a therapeutic approach is collaborative. Scott will work with each person to figure out which methods fit best based on needs, goals, and comfort. That means trying an idea, checking how it feels, and adjusting the plan together as progress is made.
Online formats available include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. Video is useful for full conversations and visual cues. Phone calls can be simpler when bandwidth is limited or for shorter check-ins. Chat and messaging allow quick exchanges and flexible check-ins between sessions. These options make it easier to fit therapy into busy days and different schedules.
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