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Bernadette Wilkie, NCPS

Practical, strengths-based support for life challenges

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About Bernadette

Bernadette Wilkie helps people facing stress, anxiety, addiction, grief and depression. She supports those coping with life changes, relationship and family strain, and difficulties with sleep, anger or self-esteem. She also works with concerns such as ADHD, compulsive behaviours, and intimacy-related struggles.

She uses a straightforward, person-focused style. Sessions centre on what matters to the individual and build on their existing strengths. Bernadette encourages practical steps alongside reflection so people can manage day-to-day problems more easily.

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How Bernadette works

Her approach draws on client-centred therapy, which prioritises the person’s own goals and pace. She also uses elements of dialectical behaviour therapy to teach coping skills for strong emotions, and motivational interviewing to help people find reasons to change. These methods are used together to suit each person’s needs.

Bernadette has ten years of professional experience and holds NCPS. She works from the United Kingdom and carries out sessions in English. Her background includes supporting people with addiction, trauma, parenting strain and workplace compassion fatigue.

Sessions are practical and conversational. Bernadette helps people set small, achievable goals and practices skills in session. She focuses on clear, manageable steps so progress feels steady rather than overwhelming.

Bernadette lists 3 ways of working on the entry:

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What Bernadette works with

The areas below are the ones Bernadette selected when setting up a profile. The first few are listed as the main focus; the rest are also named.

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Training and background

Register NCPS
Years in practice 10
Languages English
Session format Online: video, phone, live chat or messaging
Country United Kingdom

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Online support options

How her approaches work online

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on the person’s priorities and choices. The therapist listens and reflects so the person can find their own solutions and set goals that matter to them.

Dialectical Behaviour Therapy, or DBT, teaches clear coping skills for strong emotions and distress. It helps with impulse control, intense anger, and patterns that cause relationship strain by practising practical strategies in sessions.

Motivational Interviewing is a way to explore ambivalence and build motivation for change. It is useful for addiction, procrastination or when someone feels stuck about making different choices.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work. Bernadette will discuss options with each person and tailor techniques to their needs, goals and preferences. The process is collaborative and adapts if something is not helping.

Online sessions using video, phone, live chat or text messaging offer flexibility for different situations. Video calls let people use visual cues and a face-to-face feel, phone sessions can be quicker check-ins or better when bandwidth is limited, and messaging suits shorter check-ins or ongoing reflection between sessions. These formats make it easier to fit therapy around work, family routines and everyday life.

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Common questions

What concerns does she help with?
She supports people dealing with stress, anxiety, addictions, grief, depression and coping with life changes, among other issues.
What is her therapeutic style like?
Her style is person focused and practical, building on the client’s strengths and setting achievable steps to manage problems.
How long has she practised clinically?
She has ten years of professional experience working in therapeutic roles.
Where is she based and what credential does she hold?
She works in the United Kingdom and holds NCPS as a listed credential.
Which languages are supported for sessions?
Sessions are offered in English.
What session formats are available?
Sessions are available by video calls, phone, live chat or text-based messaging.
How does payment and cost work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions are provided through a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

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