About Shirley
Shirley Semel is a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) in California who combines practical talk therapy with compassionate listening. She focuses on helping people move past the problems that keep them stuck and reconnect with what brings them joy. Shirley works in a warm, nonjudgmental way so clients can speak freely and explore difficult feelings.
She uses approaches that put the client at the center of therapy and that also include structured tools for changing unhelpful thoughts and behaviors.
How Shirley works
Sessions often look at patterns that developed over time and practical steps to make daily life easier. Shirley helps people address stress, anxiety, depression, grief, addictions, and relationship or family concerns. Shirley has eight years of clinical experience and has led groups for issues like anger management, domestic violence, and addiction relapse prevention.
She supports people facing parenting strains, blended family issues, caregiver stress, chronic illness, and communication or commitment problems. She also addresses intimacy concerns, self-esteem, sleep or eating difficulties, and coping with major life changes. Therapy with Shirley blends listening, reflection, and goal-focused work.
She partners with clients to identify what they want to change and to build concrete steps toward those goals. People can expect a collaborative pace that balances understanding past patterns with learning new ways to respond. Sessions are offered in English and are available through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.
Shirley does not work with international clients and practices under her California LMFT credential.
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What Shirley works with
The areas below are the ones Shirley selected when setting up a profile. The first few are listed as the main focus; the rest are also named.
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
Also listed
- Addictions
- Anger management
- Bipolar disorder
- Blended family issues
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Depression
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating disorders
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Forgiveness
- Grief
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Life purpose
- Mood disorders
- Parenting issues
- Self esteem
- Sleeping disorders
- Trauma and abuse
- Women's issues
Training and background
| Register | LMFT |
|---|---|
| Years in practice | 8 |
| Languages | English |
| Session format | Online: video, phone, live chat or messaging |
| Country | California |
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Online support options
Therapeutic approaches and online care
Shirley draws on client-centered therapy and cognitive behavioral therapy to shape online sessions. Client-centered therapy focuses on listening closely and helping people find their own answers through empathy and respectful conversation. It is helpful for building trust, exploring values, and facing emotional pain. Cognitive behavioral therapy offers practical strategies to identify and change unhelpful thoughts and behaviors, which can be useful for anxiety, depression, sleep or eating problems, and addiction-related patterns.Finding the right approach is part of the work. Shirley collaborates with each person to decide which methods match their needs, goals, and preferences. She may mix listening, insight, and step-by-step skill building so the plan fits how the client wants to change.
Online therapy is offered via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to make care more flexible. Video calls let people have a full session face to face, while phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is low or a shorter check-in is needed. Live chat and text messaging work well for quick reflections, progress updates, or when written communication feels more comfortable. These options help clients fit therapy into busy days and reach care from different locations.
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