About Alan
Alan McNeill works with people who are feeling overwhelmed by anxiety, grief, trauma or low self-esteem. He is a counsellor with 24 years of experience and holds BACP registration. Alan aims to help people find practical ways to manage distress and make changes that feel manageable day to day.
He often sees adults whose early family life left them with ongoing fears, abandonment issues or difficulty trusting others. People who grew up feeling different or who experienced childhood loss, parental addiction or domestic abuse are a common focus.
How Alan works
He also supports those facing the effects of recent trauma, abuse, or major life loss. Alan draws on client-centred work to keep sessions focused on each person’s experience. He uses mindfulness to help people calm intense emotions and to notice how past patterns show up now.
Trauma-focused techniques are used when needed to reduce the hold of distressing memories and reactions. In sessions he treats the person as the expert on their life and looks for strengths to build on. He also helps people separate childhood patterns from adult choices, so daily life becomes more manageable.
The pace is steady and collaborative, shaped around what each person needs. Alan has worked across the NHS, hospices and specialist LGBT health services, and in independent practice. This range of experience informs a practical, compassionate approach that aims to make therapy feel doable and relevant to everyday life.
Alan lists 3 ways of working on the entry:
What Alan works with
The areas below are the ones Alan selected when setting up a profile. The first few are listed as the main focus; the rest are also named.
Also listed
- Abandonment
- Attachment issues
- Cancer
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Commitment issues
- Control issues
- Divorce and separation
- Emptiness
- Forgiveness
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- HIV / AIDS
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Mood disorders
- Narcissism
- Post-traumatic stress
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Self esteem
- Self-love
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexuality
Training and background
| Register | BACP |
|---|---|
| Years in practice | 24 |
| Languages | English |
| Session format | Online: video, phone, live chat or messaging |
| Country | United Kingdom |
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Online support options
How Alan’s approaches translate to online therapy
Client-Centred Therapy places the person’s experience at the heart of the work. The counsellor listens without judgement, reflects what is shared and helps people make choices that fit their life. This approach helps when someone needs space to talk and to be heard.Mindfulness Therapy teaches simple attention and breathing practices to reduce emotional overwhelm. It helps people notice thoughts and feelings without automatically reacting, which can be useful for anxiety, stress and managing strong memories.
Trauma-Focused Therapy addresses how past events continue to affect everyday life and aims to reduce their intensity. Techniques are used carefully and gradually to help people feel safer with difficult memories and to regain control over their responses.
Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will talk through goals and preferences and suggest which methods to try first, then adjust as needed. Clients and the counsellor decide together what feels most helpful over time.
Online formats offer practical flexibility. Video calls allow face-to-face work when that feels important. Phone sessions use less bandwidth and can fit into a short break. Live chat and text-based messaging are useful for brief check-ins, written reflection, or when typing feels easier than speaking. These options can make it simpler to fit therapy into a busy life and to keep continuity between sessions.
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