About Heather
Heather McQuay is a Maryland-based clinician with a combined MD and Licensed Certified Social Worker-Clinical credential and 20 years of experience in human services. She has spent more than a decade working directly as a licensed therapist. Heather focuses on helping people who are managing anxiety, depression, grief, mood disorders, trauma, and related struggles.
She takes a person-centered approach, listening first and shaping work around each person’s goals. Sessions aim to make things more manageable, one step at a time.
How Heather works
Heather uses practical tools drawn from cognitive behavioral therapy and other approaches to address patterns of thinking and behavior. Her practice also addresses stress, anger, parenting strain, compassion fatigue, ADHD, and career concerns. She supports people facing relationship and family challenges, caregiving burdens, chronic illness, adoption and foster care issues, and identity or attachment struggles.
Heather mixes structured skills with open conversation. That can mean learning coping skills from dialectical behavior therapy, practicing acceptance and values-based work from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or using motivational interviewing to clarify next steps. She adapts techniques to what feels useful for the person in front of her.
Sessions can include short exercises, goal-setting, and steady check-ins so progress is clear. Heather aims to help people reduce overwhelming feelings, improve communication, and find clearer choices during life transitions. To begin, she encourages people to reflect on what they want to change and take a first small step toward that goal.
Heather lists 11 ways of working on the entry:
What Heather works with
The areas below are the ones Heather selected when setting up a profile. The first few are listed as the main focus; the rest are also named.
- Stress, Anxiety
- Trauma and abuse
- Anger management
Also listed
- Abandonment
- ADHD
- Adoption and foster care
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Attachment issues
- Avoidant personality
- Bipolar disorder
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Coaching
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Depression
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Emptiness
- Family conflicts
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Fertility issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Hoarding
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Parenting issues
- Phobias
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Relationship issues
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Smoking / vaping cessation
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Training and background
| Registers | MD, LCSW-C |
|---|---|
| Years in practice | 20 |
| Languages | English |
| Session format | Online: video, phone, live chat or messaging |
| Country | Maryland |
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Online support options
Therapeutic approaches you can use online
Heather often uses cognitive behavioral therapy, which focuses on identifying unhelpful thinking and testing new behaviors to reduce symptoms like anxiety and depression. CBT gives clear tools and homework you can practice between sessions to change patterns that cause distress.She also draws on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, which helps people notice what matters to them and take committed steps toward those values even when feelings are difficult. ACT is useful for coping with chronic stress, grief, or ongoing mood challenges. In addition, elements of dialectical behavior therapy are used to teach emotion regulation and interpersonal skills for better day-to-day coping.
Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. Heather will talk with each person about their goals and preferences, then try methods that suit those needs. She adjusts pacing and tools over time so the work stays relevant and doable.
Online sessions are offered by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to increase flexibility. Video sessions allow face-to-face conversation and screen sharing for worksheets, phone sessions can be a simpler check-in when bandwidth is limited, and chat or messaging can work for brief updates or ongoing coaching-style support. These options help people fit therapy into busy schedules and maintain continuity during life changes.
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