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Paula Ciocirlau, BACP

Warm person-centred psychotherapist

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About Paula

Paula Ciocirlau welcomes people feeling overwhelmed by stress, anxiety, relationship strain or major life changes. She makes space for honest conversation and practical steps. Paula speaks English and Romanian and has eight years of experience supporting people through a wide range of concerns.

Paula uses a person-centred approach that keeps the client’s perspective at the heart of each session. She also draws on solution-focused work to help people set concrete short-term goals.

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How Paula works

Internal Family Systems ideas are used when it helps clients understand different parts of themselves and how they interact. Her background includes training and practice since 2016, with time spent in Vienna and in international settings. That experience feeds into how she notices cultural differences and adapts conversations to fit each person.

She describes therapy as a joint effort where people remain experts on their own lives. Paula supports people with many practical and emotional issues, including parenting pressures, grief, trauma and abuse, eating and sleeping difficulties, addictions, ADHD and stress-related exhaustion. She also helps with career questions, relationship and intimacy concerns, and navigating compassion fatigue or caregiver strain.

Sessions can be used for short-term coaching or longer therapeutic work depending on what someone needs. Costs vary with location and sessions run on a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time. To begin, clients complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule sessions according to availability.

Paula lists 3 ways of working on the entry:

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What Paula works with

The areas below are the ones Paula selected when setting up a profile. The first few are listed as the main focus; the rest are also named.

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Training and background

Register BACP
Years in practice 8
Languages English, Romanian
Session format Online: video, phone, live chat or messaging
Country United Kingdom

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Online support options

Therapeutic approaches in online counselling

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on listening and understanding the person’s experience. The therapist follows the client’s lead, reflects what they hear and helps people feel heard before working on change; this approach is useful for building trust and sorting through emotions.

Solution-Focused Therapy concentrates on small, practical steps that move someone toward their goals. Sessions often identify what is already working and build on small successes, which can help with stress, career decisions or relationship changes.

Internal Family Systems looks at the different parts inside a person and how they relate. It can help people who feel split between competing impulses, such as self-criticism versus self-care, and can be useful for trauma, grief or identity questions.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. Paula will listen to your concerns, discuss different ways of working and adapt methods to match your goals and preferences. Together you will decide whether to focus on short-term solutions, deeper parts work, or a mix of approaches.

Online therapy offers practical flexibility. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation when visual cues matter. Phone sessions can fit into a busy day or use less bandwidth. Live chat and text-based messaging suit brief check-ins, ongoing coaching or people who prefer typing. These options make it easier to keep consistency and fit therapy around work, family or travel.

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Common questions

What concerns does she help with?
She helps people facing stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and parenting pressures, as well as issues such as trauma, grief, addictions and ADHD.
What style of therapy does she use?
Sessions blend person-centred listening with solution-focused techniques and Internal Family Systems ideas to suit the client’s needs.
How long has she been practising?
Paula has eight years of experience, beginning her psychotherapy journey in 2016 and working in international settings.
Where is she based and what credentials does she hold?
She is based in the United Kingdom and holds BACP registration as listed in her profile.
Can I work with her if I live outside the UK?
Yes, she accepts international clients and offers sessions to people outside the United Kingdom.
Which session formats are available?
Sessions are offered by video call, phone, live chat or text-based messaging to suit different needs and schedules.
How are sessions paid for and what do they cost?
Session cost varies with location and therapist availability; they use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I get started with her?
Begin by selecting the Start Therapy button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and then scheduling sessions based on the therapist’s availability.

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