About Paula
Paula Ciocirlau welcomes people feeling overwhelmed by stress, anxiety, relationship strain or major life changes. She makes space for honest conversation and practical steps. Paula speaks English and Romanian and has eight years of experience supporting people through a wide range of concerns.
Paula uses a person-centred approach that keeps the client’s perspective at the heart of each session. She also draws on solution-focused work to help people set concrete short-term goals.
How Paula works
Internal Family Systems ideas are used when it helps clients understand different parts of themselves and how they interact. Her background includes training and practice since 2016, with time spent in Vienna and in international settings. That experience feeds into how she notices cultural differences and adapts conversations to fit each person.
She describes therapy as a joint effort where people remain experts on their own lives. Paula supports people with many practical and emotional issues, including parenting pressures, grief, trauma and abuse, eating and sleeping difficulties, addictions, ADHD and stress-related exhaustion. She also helps with career questions, relationship and intimacy concerns, and navigating compassion fatigue or caregiver strain.
Sessions can be used for short-term coaching or longer therapeutic work depending on what someone needs. Costs vary with location and sessions run on a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time. To begin, clients complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule sessions according to availability.
Paula lists 3 ways of working on the entry:
What Paula works with
The areas below are the ones Paula selected when setting up a profile. The first few are listed as the main focus; the rest are also named.
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Parenting issues
Also listed
- Abandonment
- Addictions
- ADHD
- Adoption and foster care
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Anger management
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Avoidant personality
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Bipolar disorder
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Cancer
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Co-morbidity
- Coaching
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Depression
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Eating disorders
- Emptiness
- Family conflicts
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Fertility issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Hearing impaired
- HIV / AIDS
- Hoarding
- Immigration issues
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intellectual disability
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Paranoia
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Sleeping disorders
- Smoking / vaping cessation
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Somatization
- Trauma and abuse
- Traumatic brain injury
- Trichotillomania
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Visually impaired
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Training and background
| Register | BACP |
|---|---|
| Years in practice | 8 |
| Languages | English, Romanian |
| Session format | Online: video, phone, live chat or messaging |
| Country | United Kingdom |
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Online support options
Therapeutic approaches in online counselling
Client-Centred Therapy focuses on listening and understanding the person’s experience. The therapist follows the client’s lead, reflects what they hear and helps people feel heard before working on change; this approach is useful for building trust and sorting through emotions.Solution-Focused Therapy concentrates on small, practical steps that move someone toward their goals. Sessions often identify what is already working and build on small successes, which can help with stress, career decisions or relationship changes.
Internal Family Systems looks at the different parts inside a person and how they relate. It can help people who feel split between competing impulses, such as self-criticism versus self-care, and can be useful for trauma, grief or identity questions.
Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. Paula will listen to your concerns, discuss different ways of working and adapt methods to match your goals and preferences. Together you will decide whether to focus on short-term solutions, deeper parts work, or a mix of approaches.
Online therapy offers practical flexibility. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation when visual cues matter. Phone sessions can fit into a busy day or use less bandwidth. Live chat and text-based messaging suit brief check-ins, ongoing coaching or people who prefer typing. These options make it easier to keep consistency and fit therapy around work, family or travel.
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