About Toni
Toni Hernalsteen is a Licensed Master Social Worker (LMSW) based in Michigan with 17 years of clinical experience. She focuses on helping people manage stress, anxiety, depression, grief, addictions, relationship problems, and other life challenges. She aims to meet people where they are and tailor support to each person's needs.
Toni uses straightforward, practical methods. Sessions often include talking through problems, building skills for coping, and finding motivation to keep making progress.
How Toni works
She draws on approaches such as cognitive behavioral techniques, acceptance and commitment ideas, mindfulness, and motivational interviewing to help people notice patterns and try new responses. Her style is empathetic and collaborative. Toni listens actively and adapts the pace and focus to what matters most to the individual.
She works to create a calm space for reflection and problem solving so clients can better understand themselves and their choices. Toni has experience helping people facing challenges like chronic health issues, caregiving stress, body image concerns, career difficulties, sleep problems, anger, intimacy issues, and compassion fatigue. She also addresses addiction, codependency, domestic violence recovery, and navigating divorce and separation.
Therapy with Toni typically combines practical skill-building with exploration of values and motivation. She encourages small, realistic steps that fit daily life. Beginning therapy is often hard, and Toni emphasizes steady support and positive momentum as people work toward their goals.
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What Toni works with
The areas below are the ones Toni selected when setting up a profile. The first few are listed as the main focus; the rest are also named.
- Stress, Anxiety
- Addictions
- Relationship issues
Also listed
- Abandonment
- ADHD
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Anger management
- Body image
- Cancer
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Coaching
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Depression
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Family conflicts
- Family problems
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Hoarding
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Impulsivity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Parenting issues
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sleeping disorders
- Smoking / vaping cessation
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Trauma and abuse
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Women's issues
- Young adult issues
Training and background
| Register | LMSW |
|---|---|
| Years in practice | 17 |
| Languages | English |
| Session format | Online: video, phone, live chat or messaging |
| Country | Michigan |
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Online support options
Approaches that translate well to online therapy
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people clarify what matters to them and take action toward those values. It emphasizes noticing thoughts and feelings without getting stuck, which can be useful for anxiety, depression, and motivation problems. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on identifying unhelpful thinking and behavior patterns and practicing concrete skills to change them, often helping with anxiety, depression, sleep, and coping with stress. Motivational Interviewing is a conversational method to build motivation and resolve mixed feelings about change, frequently used for addictions and behavior change.Finding the right approach is part of the work together. The therapist will talk with each person about their goals, preferences, and daily life, then choose or combine methods that fit. This collaborative process means plans can be adjusted as needs evolve and small steps are tried and reviewed.
Online sessions are offered by video call, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging to make therapy more flexible. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation and visual cues, phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is limited or a quick check-in is needed, and chat or messaging can support shorter exchanges or ongoing reflections between meetings. These options help people fit therapy into work, caregiving, or busy schedules while still working on meaningful change.
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